Recently, E-Tips have been focusing on the power of questions to build relationships and to engage employees in performance conversations. This month we offer a very subtle but powerful trick for expanding the possibilities of your conversations. Here’s the trick: Use plural nouns to open or extend the other person’s perspective.I don’t want to get all “English teacher” on you (that’s my husband Steve’s job). Still, an awareness of the words you choose will allow you to have a greater impact on the conversations you initiate with employees. You use nouns in all of your open-ended questions anyway. That’s how our language works. Now, when you ask for input ask for more than one response. Here are some examples of useful plural nouns:

o Goals rather than goal
o Options rather than option
o Perspectives rather than perspective
o Ideas rather than idea
o Alternatives rather than alternative

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One thing that often confuses English language learners is when they should use there is or there are. This is one topic that is covered in a free online English course. In the course of the lesson, you will also realize that there is can become a contraction – there’s. First of all you have to think of what you want to talk about in your sentence. “There is” refers to one person, place or thing and is used when speaking in singular terms. “There are” is plural and is used when speaking of more than one person, place or thing.

The rules associated with using these words are:

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A commonly-held belief is that Ralph Nader siphoned votes in 2000 and cost Vice-President Al Gore the election. The only reason I have trouble with that view is the fact that there were over 2,000,000 people that voted for him. Ralph Nader had, and has, the right to run for President. And anyone who votes had the right to vote for him. Let us not allow politicians, the media, our neighbors, and ourselves to create any more animosity, or perpetuate the brainwashing and conditioning that perpetuates the acceptance a two-party system as the sole form of Democracy. That’s not what our country is based on, and that is not the idea for which people have fought and died.

A new concept was stuck into my head today, again by my more intelligent friend. If we “siphon” enough votes to cause a panic among the two dominating parties, it may be a wake-up call to them. In the past, I’ve held beliefs which match many other people’s feelings about voting “the lesser of two evils.” Basically, voting for a third-party may make a statement, but a third party candidate won’t get elected so it’s a wasted vote. Countering that thought, the new point of view I’m now considering regards the panic I mentioned. Essentially, if a Democrat or Republican loses an election because of a third-party candidate, there’s a possibility and the potential for the introduction of new legislation: instant run-off voting during a general election, and the winner must have the plurality of votes. I’ll attempt to simplify this idea for those who are newbies to politics and representative government.

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Now don’t get excited, the title does not infer that there are a multitude of Gods in heaven. I believe in only one God most likely just as you do, and my religion tells me that my religion is the way to join with God for eternal life most likely just as yours does.

By comparing countries, religions and languages, it appears that a major cause of much of the conflict in our world can be due to placing one concept of God against another. Even within Christianity one Christian religion may look upon another Christian religion as inferior. I feel the need to give others respect as they should do to you as well. The time has come where we must do the same with our personal religious views as well. Therefore, our interpretation of God should be taken in the plural sense giving each of us the dignity and respect to practice our religion in our way without infringing on the rights of others who want to do the same, but in another way.

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